Thursday, February 11, 2010

The Green-Eyed Monster strikes again...

I thought I would post this to see what people think.

Is a little jealousy in a relationship a good thing or is it always bad?

Personally I am a very jealous person... I acknowledge this, and I really am not happy that I am this way. BUT that being said, I honest to God can not help it.  I feel its a result of past experiences that have taught me that when you completely open up to someone and trust them 100% they never fail to do something to break your heart.

Now, to have someone feel jealousy over you is not such a bad thing.  Not that I enjoy causing people to feel this way, but it does show that they truly love you.  Otherwise they would give a f' what you did or who you spoke to.

I think what bothers me is that when I know I am not lying or hiding something, yet you are accuses of it because the greeneyed monster is a mean and nasty thing.

Oh well... its human nature I think. 

I do however want to declare that I absolutely 100% love my husband, he makes me happy and he completes my soul.  (You Complete Me) I know sapppy...  but its true.  I love this man to the point where I have not even looked at another man since I met him.

Jealousy is definitely not a good thing!!!!



Nessa said...

I have a hard time with jealousy. I don't think it means you love someone if you are jealous. Love is about trust.

A New Old Fairy Tale

Smellyann said...

Hm, I would probably say that little jealousy goes a long way, but too much is too much.

I hope everything's okay???